my bro – James Anthony Gonzales 1969-2011
“Ancient Egyptians believed that upon death they would be asked two questions and their answers would determine whether they could continue their journey in the afterlife. The first question was, ‘Did you bring joy?’ The second was, ‘Did you find joy?”
― Leo Buscaglia
Jimbo and me on his and Amy’s Wedding Day !
My baby brother Jimbo brought so much Love and pure Joy to my life that when he suddenly moved to Heaven at age 41, I had a very, very important life decision to make. How was I going to move forward “without him” physically?
I looked deep within myself and surrendered to “what is”. At his Memorial Celebration I chose to help our family and friends process his passing with 100 Tribute T-Shirts, Photo cards, etc. Everyone was so touched to have something special to cherish and I was left with such deep gratitude for the LOVE they carried for Jimbo. It was this energy exchange that truly helped heal my broken lonely heart.
“Still Celebrating You” was created when I decided to Celebrate Jimbo’s 1 year Anniversary with 40 gift boxes filled with FUN, special items. I created a bright green tye died Tribute T-shirt, I made a new photo card filled with pictures of Jimbo, truly living….The feedback I received again, was so overwhelmingly healing.
I knew I wanted to share my experience of surrendering and Celebrating even in the toughest experiences. I truly believe our Angels want us to move forward with their Love and Blessings. Our family and friends all weave Jimbo into their daily lives and that energy creates such a positive connection for healing and trusting the divine unfoldment of life. LOVE LIVES ON !!!!
